Are Your Finances Ruining Your Life?

There are a lot of things in life that can cause you stress. Everything from work to family to trying to keep up some semblance of a social life. However, there’s no doubt that one thing causes more stress for the vast majority of people than just about anything else. That thing is, of course, money. Now, whether we like it or not, most of our lives are ruled by money, but if you’re struggling in any way when it comes to your finances, that can start to have a seriously negative impact on your life. It can impact your general well-being, your relationships, even your health! To prevent that from happening, here are a few ways to stop your finances from ruining your life and get organized.

Deal with Your Debts

Few things create a bigger knot in the pit of many people’s stomachs than the word debt. It’s one of those things that can make it feel as though you’ve failed as a person. However, it’s important to remember that debt is just a part of modern life that everyone must learn to manage. Of course, if your debts start to pile up then that can be pretty scary. Luckily, there are ways to deal with it. Consolidating your debts with a single loan can be incredibly useful. Check out this debt consolidation loan calculator to figure out how much you could save on a month-by-month basis. Solving debt with more debt might seem backward, but it helps only to have one payment that you need to make each month.

Are Your Finances Ruining Your Life?

Curb Your Spending

Here’s the harsh truth that a lot of people want to ignore: most of us spend too much money. We end up spending far more than we can actually afford because we don’t keep track of what we’re spending it on. You might think that you’re frugal with your money since you don’t make any huge purchases but the truth is it’s the little things that empty your bank account. A coffee here, a little souvenir there, and soon those little purchases have added up so quickly that your account is empty. Make sure that you keep track of all your spending so that you don’t end up wasting all your money.

Are Your Finances Ruining Your Life?

Set Up a Budget for Healthy Finances

Do you know what your monthly income and outgoings are? Well, if you don’t then it’s no surprise that you’re worrying about money. By setting up a clear budget, you can keep track of all your spending as well as figure out where you can cut back and save money on a regular basis. One really easy way to track your money and create a budget is through the use of mint.com. Mint gathers your financial information from your bank accounts, billing accounts, loan accounts and more to help you create a doable and accurate budget as well as savings goals. Mint even offers a more centralized way to pay your bills.

One of the most important things to remember is that money often only has as much power as you give it. Sure, there are plenty of things in life that you cannot do without money, but if you spend all your time thinking about it, then you’re never going to be able to see the value in anything else. Try to adjust the way you think about money and put less of your energy into obsessing over it.

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Dealing With Financial Stress

Do you ever find yourself checking your bank account and immediately feeling tense or stressed? That’s because money is a huge source of anxiety in our lives. So if you’re anxiously awaiting your next paycheck, don’t worry—you’re part of the 72% of Americans who feel stressed about money.

Stress and anxiety can manifest itself in our bodies in many different ways. Muscle tension, poor digestion, and high blood pressure are just a few. People with high debt are also more likely to struggle with mental health issues like depression.
Thankfully, there are some self-care actions we can take daily to help alleviate money-related anxiety. From an Epsom-salt bath to meditation sessions and a tall glass of kombucha, this infographic provides self-care inspiration and money mantras for a peaceful and prosperous life.

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How to Become a Financially Strong Millennial

Millennials live in a time full of financial challenges; there’s no denying that. Whether we are just not trusted, or if it’s because the cost of living is always on the rise. Regardless, it’s a challenge. But, there are ways to become a financially strong millennial. For any millennial out there, wondering how to take hold of your finances, this post is for you!

Organize and Economize

If you find yourself struggling with your finances, then the first tip we have for you is to begin organizing and economizing. Organizing is as precise as it sounds, take to recording absolutely everything that takes place regarding your expenditures or outgoing money and incoming money, all of it. This is for several reasons. The first reason is that it helps to keep a tighter hold on your finances and ultimately stop your spending from spiraling out of control. And second, financial records provide evidence if you find yourself in trouble. My favorite way to organize my finances is  Mint. Mint gathers information from all your financial assets, helps you create a budget, and work toward saving goals while providing you with useful spending and income trend information. I have been using it for over seven years, and I don’t know what I would do without it.

One way of organizing your financial information is generating payroll check stubs on a site such as PaystubCreator.net and then keeping them in an organized fashion. You could also be keeping all the invoices you receive, both in the world of bill paying and in the world of income, so that you can always prove you have both paid debt that you owe and have been paid.

Economizing refers to eliminating unnecessary spending and utilizing a budget. Before making a purchase, take a deep breath, and ask yourself, ‘do I really need this?’ and if you do need it, ask yourself ‘is there a cheaper alternative that will work just fine?’ Another way to economize your finances and eliminate splurges is to go shopping with a list, never deviating from this list no matter the deal or discount. It’s hard, don’t get me wrong, I struggle all the time! But it is doable!

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Get Ready for Retirement

Even if your planned age of retirement is well over four decades away, it’s still important to start planning and saving for it now. This is because believe it or not, as millennials, we are in an ideal position to do so (at least compared to past young generations). Starting your retirement fund now is important because your money will grow and accrue interest and the longer it is growing, the more money you will have when you go to retire.

Specifically, what you should be doing is beginning to contribute to a Roth retirement fund option. This is a fund that both you and your employers will contribute to, meaning money will be growing within it whilst you work. A good piece of advice is to match whatever your employer contributes. If your employers do not contribute then it is up to you to save, add it to your new budget!

Now that you have a better idea of how to begin your journey toward financial strength, get going! Start organizing your financial life with the use of budgeting, shopping lists, filing systems, or whatever else works for you!

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Moving Costs You Never Considered & How to Minimize It

Are you planning on a big move soon? There may be some costs you have not yet considered! Here are some of those costs and how to minimize them!

In the modern age, it’s not unusual to live with your parents until you’re well into your thirties. A $10,000 deposit would’ve been enough to set you up just a few years ago, but that’s barely a drop in the ocean now. As such, many of us opt to stay at home and save everything we can towards our home funds. It’s either that or jumping into the rental world and kissing goodbye to homeownership forever.

There is, however, one major issue which the savers among us often forget. When plotting out how much we need to save, many of us focus on the amount necessary for our deposits. But, that’s far from the only cost of moving to a new house. When you’re moving out for the first time, you also need to consider moving costs. The expense of moving your home will add up to a fair amount.

Of course, you don’t need to kit your whole home straight away. There’s nothing wrong with holding fire on less necessary aspects, such as the spare room or dining area. But, even when you take things slowly, there are some items you’ll need right away. Without them, your house won’t be a home. Worse, it won’t be a functional space.

In truth, though, even the essentials are sure to cost more than you’re expecting. When you’ve never gone it alone before, it’s near enough impossible to anticipate how expensive the most functional features can be. After all, your parents have always dealt with that stuff. But, to give you some idea, we’re going to look at the more pricey additions, and consider ways you can cut the costs of each.

Moving Costs You Never Considered and How to Minimize Them

Kitchen Supplies

A whisk here, a cutlery set there; surely kitchen supplies can’t cost all that much, right? Wrong. By the time you’ve kitted your kitchen, you’re looking at a hefty price tag. The stuff may not be pricey, but the sheer number of things you need boosts the cost. When you’ve used someone else’s kitchen all your life, it’s a shock to realize just how many things are essential. But, to give you some idea, we’re going to look at a few of the must-have kitchen accessories:

And, oh, the list goes on. Spend an average of $20 on each of these things, and you’re soon looking at insane amounts of money. The good news is, there are some tricks and tips for reducing the sting at least a little.

The best thing about kitchen supplies is the fact that they’re portable. Each item is relatively small, meaning that you can buy it well in advance and store it without hassle. Buying a bed before moving may not be practical, but you’ll barely notice a box of pans under your bed. The sooner you start, the more you can spread the cost. You won’t notice a small amount from each monthly pay packet, but you’re sure to notice a significant sum going out at once.

It’s also worth asking around friends and loved ones for anything going spare. Most people end up with duplicates in the kitchen, so you never know what you might be able to find free of cost! Maybe even browse the local second-hand stores and garage sales to see what you can find for little to no cost!

Moving Costs You Never Considered and How to Minimize Them

Beds & Bedding

The chances are that you’ll also need to stock your new home with new beds. Sadly, bed frames are a lot more expensive than you would expect. Even an Ikea special will set you back a good $200 or more. Cheaper options are still pricey, at around $99. If you spend the bulk of your money one anything, I would suggest that it’s your bed. It may not seem like it, but it’ll be an investment down the line.

The bad news is, if you’re moving a spare room too, you’ll need to buy two beds. You can do the math of how painful that would be. Not to mention that the bed frame isn’t all you need to consider. You’ll also want to think about a mattress and a decent duvet. Then there are pillows and duvet covers to consider. Let’s be honest… it’s getting expensive.

As mentioned above, it’s not always worth cutting costs on your bed. At the end of the day, a decent option now will last you for many years. But, there are ways to lower the initial outlay. If you’re kitting a spare room too, why not invest in a daybed or sofa bed option? These are a lot cheaper, and much more practical. You’ll get a lot more use out of a sofa than you would from a bed which is used occasionally.

Again, you want to pick a high-quality option which will last. But, there are high-quality selections on the cheaper end of the scale. Mattresses pretty much cater for every price range, read about it here and decide which would work best for you. Remember that compromising on price doesn’t have to mean compromising on quality in this instance.

Lastly, remember that you can cut costs on duvets. Quality isn’t as important here, as it’s recommended that you change your duvet every five years or so anyway. Not to mention that many people opt for lighter choices during the summer, such as a blanket or a sheet. With that in mind, don’t be afraid to try cheaper options. It’s also possible to buy cheap duvet covers if you know where to look for them. These won’t impact your sleep quality in any real way, so it’s not worth spending money on top-quality options. Instead, shop around for some bargains, and opt for appearance over quality. That is, after all, the primary purpose of a duvet cover.

Moving Costs You Never Considered and How to Minimize Them

Seating & Other Furniture

Seating is also sure to set you back a fair bit while moving into a new home. The chances are that you’ll want somewhere to take a break in quite a few of your rooms. You may want stools for your kitchen, a sofa set for your living room, and a vanity chair for your bedroom. All of which are set to cost more than you’d think.

Obviously, a sofa set will be the most expensive seating outlay. But, you’ll find it difficult to feel settled in your home without one. The good news is that you can get many good bargains on decent sofa sets. Thanks to the trend of selling second-hand furniture online, you should be able to find what you’re after with little hassle. Searching on sites like Gumtree could even lead you to a free option if you’re lucky. Bear in mind that it’s worth looking out for complete sets. That way, you won’t have to buy more chairs when hosting guests. Bear in mind too, that, when shopping this way, you may not get exactly what you’re after. But, you can always reupholster anything you don’t like.

As for the rest of your house, it may be worth investing in a set of chairs to go in various rooms. A set of three stools, for example, could last throughout the house. Again, you could change covers to make them match each room. All it takes is a little creative thinking. One good resource is VarageSale, a mobile app that works like a garage sale on your phone. What’s great about this app is that most of its sellers are open to negotiation, so name your price and see what happens!

Moving Costs You Never Considered and How to Minimize Them

Décor

Last, but by no means least, is the cost of decor. While you may think this is a job which can wait, you’d be wrong. Decorating your space is essential if you want to feel at home once you are done moving. And, the chances are that you’ll want to settle as soon as possible. Thus, you’ll need to fork out on paintbrushes, rollers, paint, and any other supplies necessary. Plus, once the decoration is done, you’ll need to consider those small things that make a house a home. Art prints, rugs, and coffee tables all fall under this subheading.

The bad news is, the costs here will quickly add up if you’re decorating every room in your new home. It may seem like a small job, but none of these supplies are cheap. Even the additions could get pricey, with art prints alone costing sometimes hundreds of dollars. But, yet again, there are some ways to lessen the blow.

For one, it’s worth considering an ongoing color palette throughout your home. If you’re willing, this will ensure you can keep costs on paint down by using one color throughout. It’ll also save you money on supplies because you’ll only be working in one color.

You could also make a lot of your additions by hand. If you have a creative streak, why not paint your art prints? These will have a personal touch you’d never find in a shop and therefore make you feel right at home. If painting isn’t your strong point, you could always buy postcards and frame them instead. These options will cost next to nothing but create the same effect.

For those of us less artistically inclined, try checking out Mr. Kate. Mr. Kate is a fantastic YouTube channel with hundreds of easy and beautiful DIY tricks for the home!

Regardless of your budget or level of planning, you are likely to end up spending more than anticipated when you’re moving. There are always things you will forget. Anticipate these obstacles by making smaller purchases in advance and storing them, exploring second-hand shops and phone apps, and getting creative…literally. Trust me, these tips will be life-saving and make your home just what you hoped it to be!



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A Millennial’s Guide To A Clean Home

Cleaning your home is the easiest way to keep it nice and organized. Have you ever had a big clear out where you’ve cleaned your home from top to bottom and been amazed at how neater it looks? Well, you can get that amazing feeling more often if you clean your home regularly. Of course, I know why most of us don’t get into a strict cleaning regime. We’re part of a generation that lives a very busy life. We balance a work life with a social life, it’s rare we have time at home on our own during the week. When we do, we want to rest, not clean!

So, I’ve come up with a cleaning guide that’s directed at millennials like myself. In it, you’ll find solutions to keep your home tidy without exerting too much time and effort.

Declutter

It’s not uncommon for those of us who live a busy life to leave things lying around the house all the time. Not only does this make it messier and less organized, but it also makes it harder to clean as you spend extra time picking the stuff up. Mainly, I do this when I’m getting changed, and I just dump my clothes on the floor or bed. Likewise, I’ll come home and throw my coat anywhere. It’s the same with my mail too, I won’t open it right away, I’ll let it stockpile up on my kitchen table and rarely sort it.

What we need to do is put things away as soon as possible. Pick up your clothes from the floor and put them in the washing basket or cupboard. Organize your mail right away and stop letting stuff clutter your home. As a result, you’ll have less mess, making your house easier to clean. Check out this closet organization post to learn more about organizing your bedroom closet or this post on file organization to help you out!

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Using Robots

Vacuuming your home is one of the longest tasks when cleaning. However, if you put it off, it makes the task so much harder and time-consuming. Thankfully, there is a genius solution to your woes; get a robotic vacuum. Yes, it’s nearly 2018 and robots are now your best friend in the home. A quick peek on The Smart Future website will show you a whole host of robotic vacuums with different features. Mainly, their task is to vacuum your floor and keep it clean. You can buy one, turn it on, and let it do the work while you put your feet up or do something else. If you really want to make life easier, you can get one with a mopping function too!

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There’s an App for That

There’s an app for just about anything. and, surprise surprise, there’s an app to help you with your home cleaning too. In fact, if you have a look on Housekeep you’ll see there are multiple apps at your disposal. Each one is designed to help you structure and schedule your cleaning routine, prioritizing tasks and setting alerts to get you to clean. This can help you use your time better and clean a little per day, rather than having to dedicate one or two hours on a single day per week.

Follow this guide, and you can have a clean and organized home! Let me know what your cleaning hacks are in the comments!

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A Millennial’s Guide To A Clean Home

Dealing with Loneliness: Living By Yourself Far Away From Home, Family, and Friends

Everyone gets lonely, especially when you are in a new town far away from those you know and love. It’s hard, very hard. And sometimes it’s even emotionally draining. Here are some tips to help you manage loneliness when living by yourself far away from home, family, and friends.

Go Out Often (AKA Don’t Pout at Home)

This is the one that I struggle with most. I am an introvert, a hardcore introvert, and I prefer to be at home. Sometimes when I get offers to go out, I turn them down because I had plans to relax on my couch and do nothing by myself. But other times, when I say yes despite every bone in my body wanting to turn it down, I have an amazing time and I no longer feel so lonely. If you’re an introvert like me, going out and spending time with people is really hard and you have to be intentional. But, it is so very worth it in the battle against loneliness.

Dealing with Loneliness: Living by Yourself Far Away from Home, Family, and Friends

Be Friendly When in Public

I think this is something people take for granted in general. When we are out and about running errands we get tunnel vision and forget about all those other people around us. I have found that this mentality only feeds loneliness. When you don’t allow yourself to see and interact with those people, you forget they are there and you feed your loneliness. However, if you see these people and provide a passing smile or acknowledgment, you are more likely to walk home a little less lonely. Maybe you can even try to spark up a conversation with the person checking you out at the grocery store.

The other day, I was dropping off a return package at the post office. The post office always seems to be one of the least friendly places on my list of errands. The people seem to want you out as quick as possible. And I accept that and make a point to tell them to have a nice day. This makes me feel better, but it’s not very helpful because the people don’t care. However, this day I was dropping off my package and there was a massive line.

As I stood in the line I observed the workers, one of which was striking up a conversation and being kind to everyone. When it was my turn, he was the worker who checked my package and immediately he sparked a conversation with me about old cartoons because he noticed I was wearing an antique Mickey Mouse t-shirt. He doesn’t know this, but I went home a little less lonely that day. Moral of the story, when you acknowledge the existence of those around you, even in passing, you feel less lonely and you could be helping them battle their own loneliness.

Befriend Coworkers

If you struggle with going out and being social like I do, making friends is even harder. And that is why I highly recommend befriending those you are around naturally. For me, making friends by going out and being social with strangers is discouraging, because I just don’t really do it, nor do I really understand how to do it. Because of this, I have learned to instead create my social life around coworkers and peers. Sure, this narrows my hunting grounds, but it also forces me to be nice to and aware of those around me. By befriending those around you, you are battling the lonely in a way that is more natural and easy. Sure, I encourage you to go out and find friends in other ways. But, this is a great way to start, and chances are, you have something in common with your co-workers, I mean, you chose to work or go to school at the same place, right?

Dealing with Loneliness: Living by Yourself Far Away from Home, Family, and Friends

Be Safe

Now, this tip won’t intrinsically help you with loneliness, but it will be useful. When we get lonely, sometimes we accept offers from strangers despite our better judgment because we are trying to make friends and build relationships. This is not a good idea. Do not go out at night alone, do not have strangers over, and do not go over to strangers homes. These tips are common sense, sure. But when loneliness becomes overwhelming, sometimes these ideas don’t seem to back. Be safe.

Keep Busy, But Not Distracted

Sitting at home watching Netflix is the worst idea I’ve ever had since living alone. Doing this just leads to me feeling even lonelier. If you throw Netflix on in the background and clean the apartment, cook dinner, play a game, write a paper, or really anything productive, it’ll affect you far less.

Dealing with Loneliness: Living by Yourself Far Away from Home, Family, and Friends

Regularly Talk to Family and Friends

If you are like me and can’t visit friends or family whenever you’d like, be sure to contact them regularly. I text or snap chat my sisters, parents, and friends almost daily and talk to my Dad and boyfriend on the phone when I am able. This immensely helps! If it wasn’t for connecting with loved ones regularly, I would feel even more alone. But those who know me best are able to encourage me and allow me someone to work my problems out with while I am still making new friends.

Deal with the Emotions

Those lonely feelings are real, and they won’t go away if you pretend they aren’t there. So you’re lonely, that’s okay. Feel those emotions and deal with them. When you get lonely, accept the emotions, and then battle them. This battle depends completely on you, I tend to call or text family or friends when I get lonely, or I’ll pull up a project to work on, sometimes I’ll run to the store simply to be around people. If you’re feeling lonely, don’t suppress—deal with it.

Battling the lonely is REALLY hard, almost cyclical. And when you are in the midst of it, it can be so hard to see a way out. But there are so many easy ways out, try going out, being friendly, befriend coworkers, be safe, keep busy, communicate with your loved ones regularly, and then deal with your emotions.

Have you battled with loneliness? I’d love to hear about how you have gotten through, or how you are getting through it, leave a comment below!

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Dealing with Loneliness: Living by Yourself Far Away from Home, Family, and Friends

My 735 Mile Move: The Reality of Moving Far From Home

I recently made a long-distance move and it was difficult. Here I will focus on the emotional and practical challenges of my move.

If you read part-one to my 735-mile move, you know that I recently moved from Michigan to North Carolina—and it was difficult. The trip was 13+ hours of driving. If you want to know more about the challenges I experienced when moving long distances, head on over to part one. For this part of my story, I want to focus on the emotional and practical challenges that arose.

1st Month

The first weekend was easy because my family and boyfriend were still in town and we were keeping fairly busy. I was emotionally overwhelmed and found myself getting extra emotional, but in hindsight, the weekend was really good. Even after my family left, I was doing fine. It was very emotional when they left, but I was soon busy organizing and decorating all of my things.

It was the second week where I started finding myself getting lonely and tired of being in my apartment. I decided it was time to start looking for a job. Not only did I need the money, but it would provide me with a social network. Finding a social network to plug into is so important early on because it helps with those pesky lonely feelings.

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Finding a job in a new area is very stressful. Not knowing anyone, or having any connections meant that I had to start from scratch. I decided to target cafes at first. First, I created a list of cafes near my apartment and took a day to drive to each and drop off my resume and fill out applications. I got lucky and got an interview that day, ultimately getting myself hired in. This really did help with the lonely.

Read more about coping with the loneliness that comes with moving far away from home HERE!

Bus vs. Driving

The next decision I needed to make was between driving my car everywhere or learning how to ride the bus. I had never ridden the bus at home because they did not come anywhere near my house, also, I have a car and did not feel the need. However, because of having a very tight budget, I was stuck trying to figure out what would be cheaper and more realistic.

I looked up bus fare and routes then calculated how much it would cost me to drive to school for the semester (over $300: gas and parking) and how much it would cost to take the bus ($250). There was still a dilemma because it would be a two and a half hour commute on the bus and a 15-minute commute in my car. Despite being more expensive, I opted to drive in order to reduce my own daily stress and to save myself valuable time. I experience a lot of anxiety in new and crowded situations, especially those that are out of my control. So, it was better than I dip into my financial aid to buy a parking pass and drive.

It sound like a methodical decision, however, I was extremely stressed about it and it affected my health. I highly recommend you look into transportation before moving, so that it isn’t something you need to worry about last minute like I did.

Making Friends

Making friends is actually the hardest part of this move. Remember, moving far away from home all by yourself is lonely. So, making friends is essential. I have managed to get along with several co-workers and classmates. But I am referring to finding a close friend to come to with problems. This is a lot harder because it means trusting a complete stranger with your emotions and inner thoughts. I really struggle with this.

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Making friends is something I am still not sure how to do, and I have been in North Carolina over a month now. I will keep you guys in the loop and I learn and improve my friend-making abilities.

Graduate School

Graduate school was the entire motivation for my move to North Carolina. This meant that graduate school took all priority. With two jobs and full-time graduate school, I found myself struggling the very first week. I was faced with a dilemma—I needed money to pay for school, but I needed more time from work to stay in school. After I spent a few weeks thinking about quitting my second job, I decided that this was the best idea for not only my education but for my mental health. I chose to pay for school and some of my bills using my financial aid (despite hating the idea of going further into debt). If you find yourself in a similar situation, always, always take into consideration your mental health and sanity, always.

I had originally expected to work two jobs and then complete my homework in the evening. And with my schedule, I was able to. However, I found myself overwhelmed with no time to myself. The deciding factor was reducing my stress.

Finances and Budgeting

Another huge area of stress immediately after my move to North Carolina was finances. Not only was moving expensive but paying bills without an income is expensive. I felt like I was constantly spending more money than I had to spend. Especially since I did not expect to be paid for my graduate assistant job until the end of September. I had to sit down and create a list of my bills and figure out how much was due and when it was due. I then had to make sure I put aside most of my tips from my serving job. This meant that I had to create a budget that had little wiggle room and I had to stick to it.

Not having a previous conception of my bills, outside of rent and car insurance, before the move I felt underprepared. With the help of budgeting, I never fell behind in my bills; however, I highly recommend that if you are planning a big move, set aside more money than you are expecting to need.

The point of this post was not to complain or to brag, show off, or complain. I simply wanted to provide a reality for someone else who might be preparing for a long-distance move for the first time. There is so much more to the process, that I had realized.

Want to know what happened while I was planning my move? Check out Part One to my 735 Mile Move: The Reality of Preparing For the Move

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I recently made a long-distance move and it was difficult. Here I will focus on the emotional and practical challenges of my move.