Just because you are not happy in your relationship, doesn’t mean that you are not with the right person. It
The secret to having a happy relationship is completely self-dependent. A relationship is about sharing your life with someone else, and not about depending on them for every little thing. You can’t expect your partner to be your constant emotional or financial support. If you do, then this can eventually turn into resentment, and this can cause major problems. It’s completely normal for you to depend on your partner for some help and support, but if you are constantly relying on them for everything, then this could indicate deeper insecurity.
A lot of people enter a relationship with the idea of finding love. They want to fill up the hole that they have within themselves, but if you can’t love yourself, then it can be hard to expect someone to do that for you. Joyful relationships tend to be formed by those who already love themselves, and therefore want to share that love with someone else.
If you want to be happy in the relationshipthat you have now, then it is so important that you learn how to give yourpartner space. It’s completely normal for you to wantto spend the rest of your life with your partner and you may also want tocreate a family as well, but you don’t want to trample their hopes and eventheir dreams by not giving them the freedom they need to live their life. Thiscould be financial, religious or eventhrough their career.
No two people are alike, and this is one of the best things about life. Diversity is everything, so if you want to be happier in your relationship, then it is so important that you are able to appreciate and even respect these aspects. Remember that just because they are different to you, doesn’t mean that they are wrong or that you are not compatible. It just means that you are two individuals and this is perfectly normal. If you feel as though your differences are coming between you and your partner and this is something that you cannot move past, then it may be worth going your separate ways. If you are married, then this may involve you trying to file for divorce. This can be difficult, but sometimes this is the only way for you to find a relationship that you can be truly happy with.
Being in a relationship is not without its challenges. At times you may argue, and you may disagree on major topics, but if you are able to come together by the end, then this shows that you have found the right person. It also shows that you are strong enough to go the distance.
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